
A 3-month, trauma-informed group for hyper-empaths and recovering people-pleasers who are ready to stop striving, set boundaries without guilt, and finally build reciprocal relationships.
2 Live Group Sessions per month (90 minutes each) - Co-facilitated by Barbara & Herlinda, blending trauma-informed coaching with Reiki energy healing and spiritual practices
All Session Replays (within 24 hours) - Rewatch as many times as you need
Private Skool Community - Connection and accountability with fellow recovering people-pleasers, supported by Barbara & Herlinda
Monthly Frequency Practices - Somatic movement, meditation, nervous system regulation from Barbara + Reiki and energy clearing practices from Herlinda
Self-Paced Curriculum - Short, practical lessons you can complete between sessions
✨ BONUS: Manifest Your Dreams Call - Learn the power of gratitude and scripting to write your desires from the etheric to the physical
Energy Healing Support - Reiki-infused space holding and spiritual guidance woven throughout
Surprise Bonus Tools - Continuously added resources to support your transformation
Cancel Anytime - You're always in control, no long-term contracts

Five years ago, I looked like the picture of success—great career, house, car, even seats at Minnesota Vikings New Stadium Opening Game. But behind the scenes, I was slowly burning out.
After three wake-up calls—serious illness, a night that changed everything, and losing my retirement—I finally realized: how you allow yourself (and others) to treat you impacts every part of your life.
I did deep inner work—so deep that I healed my body enough to conceive and carry my miracle baby. That's when I knew this work was something I had to share.
I enrolled at the Institute for Coaching Mastery under Alyssa Nobriga (featured on Mindvalley) to get my trauma-informed Mastery Method certification. Today I help empaths, highly sensitive people, and recovering people-pleasers do the same—without having to wait for crisis to wake them up.

Herlinda brings the sacred energetic and spiritual dimension to our work together. As a trained Reiki healer and spiritual life coach, she co-facilitates our sessions—opening and closing our sacred container, leading energy healing practices, and guiding spiritual tools that complement the trauma work.
Her Reiki healing and spiritual practices help you clear absorbed energy, protect your energetic boundaries, and connect with your highest self throughout this transformation.
" I completed the coaching sessions with Barbara. I can't say enough good things about them or her. She is so amazing and has really helped me through a rough time in my life. I learned to love myself and accept myself. "

Shannon E.

" I had a wonderful session with Barbara! She is stellar at helping to pinpoint the root cause of the blocks that limit true potential. I highly recommend her services! "

Khadijah Dawkins

" Thank you for such a powerful and transformative session Barbara. I felt truly seen and supported, and the space you created gave me real clarity and energy. Your guidance is both compassionate and empowering. You are a masterful coach! "

Katarzyna Chini

My teacher taught me that real transformation happens when people are held in the right-sized container. That's why I'm only taking 25 people in this first group—not to create artificial scarcity, but because I want to make sure everyone gets the deep personal support and attention they deserve.
This intimate group size means you're not just a face in the crowd. You're seen, heard, and supported throughout your entire journey.
Once we reach 25 members, enrollment closes so this container can work its magic.
The longer you wait, the longer you stay stuck in the same patterns. Your body might send louder messages. Your resentment might grow. Your dreams will keep getting pushed to 'someday.'
The people-pleasing cycle doesn't fix itself. It only gets stronger with time.
Six months from now, you'll still be:
- Saying yes when you mean no.
- Giving everyone else the best while you get leftovers.
- Feeling empty despite doing everything 'right'.
- Wondering when it's finally your turn.
- Carrying energy and stress that isn't even yours.
But six months IN the program? You'll be:
- Setting boundaries without guilt or apology.
- Choosing yourself first without feeling selfish.
- Building reciprocal relationships that actually fill you up.
- Living from your truth instead of survival mode.
- Finally feeling whole, worthy, and enough.
All session replays are available within 24 hours. You can watch them as many times as you need. The full session—sacred space opening, Barbara's trauma-informed teaching, Herlinda's energy practices, and closing—is all captured.
The Frequency Collective is a 3-month coaching container, but you can continue being part of the community as long as you like and attend as many live sessions as it takes for your transformation. You can cancel anytime with no penalty or judgment.
Yes! Skool is incredibly user-friendly and works on both your phone and computer. It's designed for easy community connection and content access. You'll get a simple tutorial when you join, and we're always here to help if you have questions.
No one is obligated to share their story publicly. However, this is a safe space, and if you raise your hand to participate in a live session for one-on-one coaching with Barbara, vulnerability is required to do the deep inner work in that moment.
$197/month is my entry-level offer (my 1-on-1 packages go up to $1,000/month with only 5 spots available). This is also a founding member introductory rate—future cohorts will be $250/month. The monthly format has allowed me to make this transformational work more accessible to everyone. You can cancel anytime, but I encourage you to give yourself the full 3-month container to discover real, lasting change
February 27th! It's a 90-day program with 3 hours of live coaching per month, plus homework between sessions that takes only a few minutes a day. You'll also get access to our Manifest Your Dreams bonus call where you'll learn the power of gratitude and scripting.
Absolutely! That's why we have replays available within 24 hours. The time commitment is just 3 hours per month (live or replay) plus a few minutes of daily practices. It's designed for real life—for busy empaths, moms, working people who are juggling a lot but know they deserve support too.
That's exactly why The Frequency Collective is different. We don't just work on surface-level mindset or give you more affirmations to repeat. We heal at all five levels (somatic, emotional, behavioral, mental, unconscious) with trauma-informed practices. This is where lasting transformation happens—in your body, your nervous system, your unconscious patterns. Not just in your thoughts.
I'm completed my trauma-informed Mastery Method coach certification under Alyssa Nobriga (featured on Mindvalley), but more importantly—I lived this transformation first. I healed myself so deeply that my body was able to conceive my miracle baby after years of stress-induced illness. I teach from lived experience, not just theory. Plus, you get the added benefit of Reiki energy healing and spiritual support from Herlinda woven throughout the experience.
Yes! In fact, we encourage it. Therapy processes trauma and helps you understand your past. We help you integrate daily change and build new patterns in the present. They complement each other beautifully. Many of our clients are in therapy and find this group work accelerates their healing.
During the cohort, you'll get access to a special bonus session on manifestation through gratitude and scripting. You'll learn how writing takes your desires from the etheric realm to the physical—a powerful practice that combines mindset work with aligned action. This is one of my favorite tools because it bridges inner healing with external results. When you heal your relationship with yourself, your capacity to manifest what you truly desire expands exponentially.
Not at all! You don't need any label. If you relate to absorbing others' stress, feeling drained after helping people, saying yes when you mean no, giving until there's nothing left, or struggling with boundaries—this is for you. Whether you call yourself an empath, highly sensitive person, recovering people-pleaser, or none of the above, you're welcome here.
This work isn't about being spiritual in any particular way. While Herlinda brings Reiki and spiritual support, the core work is practical, somatic, and trauma-informed. You don't need to believe anything specific or have any spiritual practice. Come as you are. The work meets you where you're at.
Join The Frequency Collective. Cohort begins February 27th.

After three wake-up calls—serious illness, a night that changed everything, and losing my retirement—I finally realized: how you allow yourself (and others) to treat you impacts every part of your life. I turned my life around by setting boundaries, releasing old patterns, and learning to put myself first.
I did deep somatic and frequency work—so transformative that I healed my body enough to conceive and carry my miracle baby. That transformation showed me this work needed to be shared.
I enrolled at the Institute for Coaching Mastery under Alyssa Nobriga (featured on Mindvalley) to get my trauma-informed Mastery Method certification. Today I help empaths, highly sensitive people, and recovering people-pleasers do the same—without having to wait for crisis to wake them up.
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