Forgiveness With Fire

No More Bypassing

A 3-month, trauma-informed group for hyper-empaths and recovering people-pleasers who are ready to stop striving, set boundaries without guilt, and finally build reciprocal relationships.

Only 25 Intimate Spots Available

Next Cohort Starts February 27th

🎁 START HERE: Get Your Free Guide

The Frequency Reset: 5 Signs You're Ready to Break the People-Pleasing Cycle

Before you join, download this free guide packed with practical tools and practices to start shifting your energy today.

Inside you'll discover:

The 5 signs you're ready for transformation

Quick frequency-shifting practices you can use immediately

Why boundaries feel impossible (and how to change that)

What forgiveness with fire really means

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Are You Living These 5 Signs?

If you just downloaded my PDF, you probably saw yourself in those 5 signs:

Doing all the 'right' things but feeling empty inside

Thinking setting boundaries makes you selfish

Burnt out from being everyone's go-to person

Knowing you deserve better but not knowing how to claim it

Ready to join the 'me first' movement but needing a roadmap

Whether you call yourself an empath, a highly sensitive person, or you just know what it's like to absorb everyone's stress and put yourself last—you're not alone.

If any of these feel like your 'ice cream on the kitchen floor' moments—crying in secret, walking on eggshells, giving everything and receiving crumbs—know this: you're not crazy, you're not broken, and there IS a way forward.

It’s Not You — It’s What You Were Taught

You’ve been conditioned to believe…

Being a ‘good person’ means never rocking the boat.

Love = fixing, rescuing, and

sacrificing.

Workplaces reward overwork and punish boundaries.

‘If you love them, you’ll stay’ (even when it costs your soul).

Spiritual bypassing + toxic positivity: ‘Just be grateful,’ ‘Don’t be sensitive.’

These patterns taught you to default to caretaker, to stay silent, to believe your needs were too much. But that was never the truth.

A Proven 3-Step Process to Self-Love & Self-Permission

Step 1: AWARENESS

Finally seeing the patterns that have been running your life since childhood

Step 2: ACCEPTANCE

Embracing all parts of yourself with the compassion you never received

Step 3: ALIGNED ACTION

Making choices that honor your true worth, not your survival programming

This is where you finally see the conditioning—'be a good person, don't rock the boat'—and how it's kept you stuck in lopsided relationships where your needs don't matter. This is where real change begins.

Forgiveness With Fire

No More Bypassing

Traditional self-help says: forgive, think positive, journal it out.
But surface-level tools don’t change deep patterns.

At Thankful Pathways, we do it differently:

Forgive for your peace — AND

require accountability.

Boundaries aren’t mean — they’re

self-respect.

No more bypassing. Truth + tools + action.

Our Five-Level Healing creates change that actually sticks:

SOMATIC

Regulate your body and nervous system through movement and breath.

EMOTIONAL

Allow grief, anger, and hope without shame or judgment.

 BEHAVIORAL

Practice boundary reps and new habits that honor you.

MINDSET

Shift limiting beliefs and transform your perspective.

UNCONSCIOUS

Rewire the automatic patterns keeping you stuck in old cycles.

This holistic approach addresses your whole being—not just your thoughts, but your body, emotions, behaviors, and deepest programming.

Everything You Get Inside The Frequency Collective

  • 2 Live Group Sessions per month (90 minutes each) - Co-facilitated by Barbara & Herlinda, blending trauma-informed coaching with Reiki energy healing and spiritual practices

  • All Session Replays (within 24 hours) - Rewatch as many times as you need

  • Private Skool Community - Connection and accountability with fellow recovering people-pleasers, supported by Barbara & Herlinda

  • Monthly Frequency Practices - Somatic movement, meditation, nervous system regulation from Barbara + Reiki and energy clearing practices from Herlinda

  • Self-Paced Curriculum - Short, practical lessons you can complete between sessions

  • BONUS: Manifest Your Dreams Call - Learn the power of gratitude and scripting to write your desires from the etheric to the physical

  • Energy Healing Support - Reiki-infused space holding and spiritual guidance woven throughout

  • Surprise Bonus Tools - Continuously added resources to support your transformation

  • Cancel Anytime - You're always in control, no long-term contracts

Total Investment: $197/month

Founding Member Introductory Rate

This rate is only available for this cohort. Future cohorts will be $250/month.

Your Transformation Team

Barbara - Lead Trauma-Informed Coach & Founder

Five years ago, I looked like the picture of success—great career, house, car, even seats at Minnesota Vikings New Stadium Opening Game. But behind the scenes, I was slowly burning out.

After three wake-up calls—serious illness, a night that changed everything, and losing my retirement—I finally realized: how you allow yourself (and others) to treat you impacts every part of your life.

I did deep inner work—so deep that I healed my body enough to conceive and carry my miracle baby. That's when I knew this work was something I had to share.

I enrolled at the Institute for Coaching Mastery under Alyssa Nobriga (featured on Mindvalley) to get my trauma-informed Mastery Method certification. Today I help empaths, highly sensitive people, and recovering people-pleasers do the same—without having to wait for crisis to wake them up.

Herlinda - Reiki Healer & Spiritual Life Coach

Herlinda brings the sacred energetic and spiritual dimension to our work together. As a trained Reiki healer and spiritual life coach, she co-facilitates our sessions—opening and closing our sacred container, leading energy healing practices, and guiding spiritual tools that complement the trauma work.

Her Reiki healing and spiritual practices help you clear absorbed energy, protect your energetic boundaries, and connect with your highest self throughout this transformation.

Together, we create a holistic container for your complete transformation—body, mind, energy, and spirit.

Real People, Real Transformations

Don't just take my word for it—here's what past clients say:

" I completed the coaching sessions with Barbara. I can't say enough good things about them or her. She is so amazing and has really helped me through a rough time in my life. I learned to love myself and accept myself. "

Shannon E.

" I had a wonderful session with Barbara! She is stellar at helping to pinpoint the root cause of the blocks that limit true potential. I highly recommend her services! "

Khadijah Dawkins

" Thank you for such a powerful and transformative session Barbara. I felt truly seen and supported, and the space you created gave me real clarity and energy. Your guidance is both compassionate and empowering. You are a masterful coach! "

Katarzyna Chini

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Why You Need to Decide Now

Only 25 Intimate Spots Available

My teacher taught me that real transformation happens when people are held in the right-sized container. That's why I'm only taking 25 people in this first group—not to create artificial scarcity, but because I want to make sure everyone gets the deep personal support and attention they deserve.

This intimate group size means you're not just a face in the crowd. You're seen, heard, and supported throughout your entire journey.

Once we reach 25 members, enrollment closes so this container can work its magic.

Next Cohort Starts: February 27th

The longer you wait, the longer you stay stuck in the same patterns. Your body might send louder messages. Your resentment might grow. Your dreams will keep getting pushed to 'someday.'

The people-pleasing cycle doesn't fix itself. It only gets stronger with time.

What happens if you don't join:

Six months from now, you'll still be:

- Saying yes when you mean no.

- Giving everyone else the best while you get leftovers.  

- Feeling empty despite doing everything 'right'.

- Wondering when it's finally your turn.

- Carrying energy and stress that isn't even yours.

But six months IN the program? You'll be:

- Setting boundaries without guilt or apology.

- Choosing yourself first without feeling selfish.

- Building reciprocal relationships that actually fill you up.

- Living from your truth instead of survival mode.

- Finally feeling whole, worthy, and enough.

Frequently Asked Questions

Your Questions Answered

What if I miss a live session?

All session replays are available within 24 hours. You can watch them as many times as you need. The full session—sacred space opening, Barbara's trauma-informed teaching, Herlinda's energy practices, and closing—is all captured.

How long do I need to stay committed?

The Frequency Collective is a 3-month coaching container, but you can continue being part of the community as long as you like and attend as many live sessions as it takes for your transformation. You can cancel anytime with no penalty or judgment.

Is Skool easy to use?

Yes! Skool is incredibly user-friendly and works on both your phone and computer. It's designed for easy community connection and content access. You'll get a simple tutorial when you join, and we're always here to help if you have questions.

Do I have to share my story in the group?

No one is obligated to share their story publicly. However, this is a safe space, and if you raise your hand to participate in a live session for one-on-one coaching with Barbara, vulnerability is required to do the deep inner work in that moment.

Why $197/month instead of a one-time payment?

$197/month is my entry-level offer (my 1-on-1 packages go up to $1,000/month with only 5 spots available). This is also a founding member introductory rate—future cohorts will be $250/month. The monthly format has allowed me to make this transformational work more accessible to everyone. You can cancel anytime, but I encourage you to give yourself the full 3-month container to discover real, lasting change

When does the next cohort start?

February 27th! It's a 90-day program with 3 hours of live coaching per month, plus homework between sessions that takes only a few minutes a day. You'll also get access to our Manifest Your Dreams bonus call where you'll learn the power of gratitude and scripting.

Can I do this with a full-time job/kids/busy life?

Absolutely! That's why we have replays available within 24 hours. The time commitment is just 3 hours per month (live or replay) plus a few minutes of daily practices. It's designed for real life—for busy empaths, moms, working people who are juggling a lot but know they deserve support too.

What if I've tried everything and nothing has worked?

That's exactly why The Frequency Collective is different. We don't just work on surface-level mindset or give you more affirmations to repeat. We heal at all five levels (somatic, emotional, behavioral, mental, unconscious) with trauma-informed practices. This is where lasting transformation happens—in your body, your nervous system, your unconscious patterns. Not just in your thoughts.

What makes your approach different from other coaches?

I'm completed my trauma-informed Mastery Method coach certification under Alyssa Nobriga (featured on Mindvalley), but more importantly—I lived this transformation first. I healed myself so deeply that my body was able to conceive my miracle baby after years of stress-induced illness. I teach from lived experience, not just theory. Plus, you get the added benefit of Reiki energy healing and spiritual support from Herlinda woven throughout the experience.

Can I do this with therapy?

Yes! In fact, we encourage it. Therapy processes trauma and helps you understand your past. We help you integrate daily change and build new patterns in the present. They complement each other beautifully. Many of our clients are in therapy and find this group work accelerates their healing.

What is the Manifest Your Dreams bonus call?

During the cohort, you'll get access to a special bonus session on manifestation through gratitude and scripting. You'll learn how writing takes your desires from the etheric realm to the physical—a powerful practice that combines mindset work with aligned action. This is one of my favorite tools because it bridges inner healing with external results. When you heal your relationship with yourself, your capacity to manifest what you truly desire expands exponentially.

Do I need to identify as an "empath" to join?

Not at all! You don't need any label. If you relate to absorbing others' stress, feeling drained after helping people, saying yes when you mean no, giving until there's nothing left, or struggling with boundaries—this is for you. Whether you call yourself an empath, highly sensitive person, recovering people-pleaser, or none of the above, you're welcome here.

What if I'm not "spiritual" enough?

This work isn't about being spiritual in any particular way. While Herlinda brings Reiki and spiritual support, the core work is practical, somatic, and trauma-informed. You don't need to believe anything specific or have any spiritual practice. Come as you are. The work meets you where you're at.

Your Turn to Stop Disappearing

This is your moment to choose self-respect over people-pleasing.

To forgive for peace, require accountability, and live from your worth.

To stop carrying what's not yours and start building a life that actually fills you up.

Where you started doesn't have to be where you stay. You can choose differently.

Join The Frequency Collective. Cohort begins February 27th.

February 27th Start Date

Only 25 Intimate Spots Available

$197/month Founding Member Rate

Cancel Anytime - No Risk

Five years ago, I looked like the picture of success—great career, house, car, even seats at Minnesota Vikings New Stadium Opening Game. But behind the scenes, I was slowly burning out.

After three wake-up calls—serious illness, a night that changed everything, and losing my retirement—I finally realized: how you allow yourself (and others) to treat you impacts every part of your life. I turned my life around by setting boundaries, releasing old patterns, and learning to put myself first.

I did deep somatic and frequency work—so transformative that I healed my body enough to conceive and carry my miracle baby. That transformation showed me this work needed to be shared.

I enrolled at the Institute for Coaching Mastery under Alyssa Nobriga (featured on Mindvalley) to get my trauma-informed Mastery Method certification. Today I help empaths, highly sensitive people, and recovering people-pleasers do the same—without having to wait for crisis to wake them up.

Ready to stop being everything to everyone and start living aligned with your truth?

Location: virtual coaching, serving clients globally

Call +1 888-312-9994

Site: thankfulpathways.com